My Kids

My little man, really not so little, Diesel (on the left) and my momma dog, Rylee (on the right.) Diesel just turned 1 and Rylee is 9. Cute hu!

Designer Christy at Work

This past weekend, I drove down to Iowa to see my sister and my boys. Saturday, Becky, my older sister (had to throw that in since today is her 34th birthday, and I drove to Sioux City and went material shopping at a sweet little quilting shop. My sister is making my daughter a quilt. :) Before our shopping excursion, I was set on light pink, more of a hot pink, white and chocolate brown......but we came across the sweetest, somewhat retro mod material and we both fell in love. Beck fell in love for me, this is not her personal style, but she can appreciate my off the wall, 70's mod style. You can kindof see 4 of the materials that we chose for the quilt, they are pinned to the pink changing table cushion, and the 5th material will be a sweet soft pink Chenille, the Chenille will be used for every other square in the quilt and the other materials will be randomly placed throughout the rest of the quilt. :) While in Iowa, my sister also gave me her glider rocker for the nursery. :) So today, I ran to the material store in search for a fun material to re-upholster the glider cushions with..............and I found a super fun one! My plan is to paint out the glider white and then re-cover the cushions with this super fun striped material. Above is the 'before' glider and my inspiration materials & colors. I am so excited to see how my daughter's nursery turns out....no worries, I will post pictures. :)

Just when you think that you've got it

Seriously, today I am way more confused than I was just yesterday. Here are the options when adopting from Kaz:

One trip, 2 trips or in some regions, now 3 trips

Traveling with a Referral or Traveling-to-Select

Aqtobe, Astana, Semey, Taraz, Esik, Karakastek or Shymkent

At the beginning of this journey, I grew comfortable with the idea of traveling-to-select and I was sure that I would go for the 2-trip option......and then I started to read attachment books, and I started leaning towards the longer one trip option as I worried about leaving my daughter once we met, I didn't want for her to feel abandoned once again.........and then I talked w/ a couple other adoptive moms who assured me that my baby is in great hands in her orphanage, that is all that she knows & the caregivers love those babies, so the 2 trip option is feeling a bit more comfortable again. With the two trips, I could come home and prepare the house, her nursery, have a shower and travel back to pick her up with my mom and my sister which would be great! It would also give me a couple weeks in-between my first and second trip to attend to work. But then what if I leave and something happens in the region in-between trips and I am not able to make it back to her for quite some time? If I had been there, would I have been able to work through the issue had I been in-country?

Regions: I was leaning towards Esik or Karakastek as they are just outside of Almaty, but I just found out that they are currently 3-trip regions. Yikes! How could you do that? That may add another $4,000 to my trip. But then are all adoptive parents thinking this same thing thus avoiding these regions? Are there going to then be several healthy babies in these 2 regions versus less in those regions that are easier to adopt from? Ugh! And some of the regions are more open to referrals and others are absolutely not, but that is a very complicated topic that we will leave alone. (which adds a whole nother dynamic to my thinking)

So far, I have made up an Excel spreadsheet comparing all regions, one trip versus two trip options, travel in-country versus not, costs per day in each region (as they do vary from region to region) etc. and the costs range by nearly $6,000 depending on region and length of trips. Semey seems to be the most logical choice, but I have health concerns with this region thus I need to continue on with my research.

What I am learning is that there is no way to 'figure out the right answers,' instead, I can only educate myself and take all of the information in, from here it may just be left to chance?????

Too Cute not to Post

Check out the sweet giraffe rattle & the little stuffed giraffe. The stuffed giraffe has a beanbag belly with a bell that jingles & crinkle paper in his hoofs. Cute!!!!

Perfect Stroller

Today my girlfriend Marla and I went shopping for the baby and yes, I bought more clothes. Marla insisted that I buy a couple sweet winter outfits in a color other than pink. Sheesh! So we bought 3 little outfits, one tan, one coral (not quite pink right) and the last one was a sweet little purple outfit (for those of you that know Marla, it was inevitable that we find a cute purple outfit!) I also ordered my crib! Lastly we picked out the perfect stroller.

There we were, two girls that have never had kids trying to figure out what stroller was best. Where would my purse go? Does it have a drink holder? Was it cute? Yep, although very important questions, I knew that we were missing some crucial 'must haves!' As we were saying to each other, "I sure wish we had someone here that could give us some direction, someone that was actually a mom with some stroller experience," the cutest pregnant lady right by us laughed, she was/is pregnant with her fourth and luckily enough for us, she has a stroller fetish. She said that she has to sneak them into her house so her husband doesn't see her buying yet another stroller. :) Too Funny, I thought people only did that with shoes! Anyhow, she found us the perfect stroller, it is only 9 lbs (perfect for traveling to Kaz!!!!!!!!!!), it folds up by unlatching only one button (easy as pie), it has a large canopy(great for sunny days), it has a net to hold my purse (see it was important to find), it has a 5 point harness that can easily be used only as a 3 point harness for an older child, it folds back just enough for an older infant to take a snooze, it holds up to 55 lbs, and once it is collapsed, it has a strap to throw it over your shoulder for easy transport. (Man did I say the word 'it' a ton of times.) Did I mention that it was only 9 lbs? Rock on! It is a Maclaren, which from what I hear, it is a nice brand. Oh yeah, I forgot to mention, it is pink......and gray! :) Truly I wasn't sold on getting a pink stroller, but it was that or a white and orange stroller (which was also super cute and perfect for a boy) but not quite as cute as the pink one. :)

Buying a Baby

Tonight I am thinking of my dear friend, Suzanne, my adoption buddy, as I drink wine and eat dill cheese and sesame crackers. :) My ritual as of late. Anyhow, as I was thinking, I just remembered an email that Suzanne sent last week, and I laughed out loud, seriously! If you have been following my blog, you will understand just what she is referring to in this paragraph:

I just told the "We're helping this lady buy a baby from Pakistan" story to one of my dearest friends today (he'll be one of my future child's future male role models). We laughed our asses off! He laughed so hard, I think he actually spit some of his lunch out of his mouth. And he typically has very refined manner

hahahaha

This was one of the funniest stories ever! That garage sale just rocked!

Ghetto Fabulous

Yes, I have become a Blog Nut! :) I love reading other family's blogs and learning about their process, emotions, regions, time frames, etc. and my favorite part of all is seeing their little angels faces once they become a family!

That being said, this is the apartment of one of the moms who recently traveled to Astana, Kazakhstan. Yikes! Can we say, "Ghetto Fabulous!" Seriously, there were mirrors on the walls, closet doors and the ceiling, and the colors were just atrocious in a super fun way. Bow, Chicka Bow Bow!